No. You don’t have to do any of that. You could wear whatever the fuck you want and then find out who your real friends are. You could do exactly what you wanted and power past a few days of ‘wtf’ looks until you feel a whole hell of a lot more comfortable being you and you like it. You could make jokes about things that you’re feeling pain about because beyond everything else, laughter really does heal. Instead of feeling broken when you hear someone’s opinion of you, just know exactly what you are. If you already know, then if someone says something true it won’t hurt because you already know, and if it’s untrue, then you’re just amused. You don’t need to be nice to ‘haters’ either. You don’t need to talk to those people unless you work with them, and I’m doubting anyone that reads this is yet in the corporate field. Life is kind of what you make it, to an extent. If you make if harder than it has to be, how do you expect everyone else to respect you for that?

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21st Dec 2011 (12:10 pm) - Reblogged from sh0w-y0ur-true-c0l0rs